Great Sex is Like a Great Movie

A quick search tells me about 600 movies are released in US theatres each year. Now have a quick think and work out how many of those movies you actually watched. Then have another think and decide what ones you thought were actually great movies.

Now, putting aside personal preferences, there are some movies that capture the imagination of millions of people. Sometimes these are the movies that attract a lot of buzz like the latest Indiana Jones movie… but that doesn’t guarantee people will love it.

If you look at the various lists of top movies, I find there’s one common thread that runs through them. They took the audience on an emotional journey.

Think about your favourite movies… what emotions do you feel? Do you fall in love with the characters? Or do you hate them? Do the movies scare you? Or do they make you laugh? All great movies cause an emotional reaction in the viewer.

And the same is true for great sex. Sure, you can have sex 600 times a year, but if there’s no emotion it’ll never be great sex. If you think back to your most memorable sexual experiences you can see how emotion played a strong role.

Maybe you hadn’t seen your lover for a while or it was someone you had to chase for a long time. It could be that you just felt a lot of passion for that person or perhaps it was “forbidden” love. External events might have played a part and raised the emotion of the situation as well.

Emotion is what makes the difference between good sex and great sex. Sure, you can love someone and have good sex with them on a regular basis, but with a bit of a kick start you can turn this into great sex.

To do this you might try:

Having a special romantic evening
Teasing your lover
Having sex somewhere “naughty”
Abstaining… for a while
Playing out fantasies
Trying something “forbidden”
Creating anticipation in advance

There are many ways to heighten emotions during sex and I recommend you try everything you can think of. A little bit of thought is all it takes to take good sex and make it great sex… and who doesn’t want that?

Tyler is a regular guy who enjoys sex and pleasuring his lovers. When he realised a lot of other guys were having the same problems he’d had in the past, he decided to do something about it. Visit his website to find out how to make love to a woman’s mind and body and download his free report “Why You Might Be Bad In Bed… And What To Do About It.”

He prides himself on being different and avoiding unnecessary hype and huge promises. While other “sex gurus” promise mind bending multiple orgasms from super ninja g-spot techniques invented by Tibetan monks… he focuses on the power of a woman’s mind for creating a powerful sexual response that lasts a lot longer than a night of passion.

Six Dating Tips For Keeping a Sexy Woman

Does this sound familiar? I am getting dates with wonderful, sexy women, and I think things are going well, and then she fails to call me back or doesn’t want to go out again. What am I doing wrong? How can I find a date and do the things that will make her want to stick around?

Here are some ideas to avoid some of the most common mistakes guys make.

Dating tip #1: Avoid traditional dates and all that pressure that comes with the traditional date. There’s the dinner, movie, and wondering if she likes you. Maybe you are going for drinks and trying to see if she’s into you. Consider trying different kinds of activities with your potential partner. Even a coffee date can be fun and relaxed. You also spend less money. Keep your mind open for other non-traditional activities like bowling, skating, walks in the park, going to the zoo or nature center. Women often love a botanical garden.

Dating tip #2: Show your interest in what your date has to say. Don’t fill the entire evening talking about yourself. Ask her about her interests, her favorite activities, her experiences, her opinions. A sexy woman will be surprised and intrigued by a man who wants to listen and is interested in what she has to say. She will want to know more about you and spend more time with you.

Dating tip #3: Don’t be afraid to show your intelligence, your manners and your good sense. Even sexy women like a guy who can put his best foot forward. Open the car door (and all doors) for your lady, and be aware to help her on stairs or on uncertain terrain especially if she is wearing high heels. We say be aware, because some women may not like this help, but other women absolutely love it. If they look like they would appreciate you extending your hand to offer them secure assistance, by all means do it. You will score major points in the gentleman category.

Dating tip #4: Be genuine in you language. Don’t use pick up lines. Also, make sure you are not trying to play a role. Simply put, be yourself. You can be a unique, charming date on your own merits. You do not need to resort to this type of behavior.

Dating tip #5: Some sexy women may try to test you. Unless you are looking for someone to serve and pamper the rest of the days of your life, don’t fall into the habit of doing everything she wants. Some of her behavior may actually be a way for her to test and see if you’ll stand up to her. Women know that if you stand up to her, you will stand up for her when she needs you. Be playful and pleasant, but make sure you remain your own man. When you pass their tests, it drives sexy women wild with desire.

Dating tip #6: It’s OK to play the field when you are first starting to date some great sexy women. They will love the idea that other sexy women also find you attractive, and they will pursue you even more.

Be a Sexy Woman – Practice and Perfect

Ever hear the phrase “fake it ’till you make it”?

I often send out tips and “homework” to my readers; things to practice and perfect. But I´ve gotten emails from women who worry that the “moves” will feel artificial.

And I’ve gotta admit, there have been times when I would stand in front of the mirror practicing steps and stances, trying on smiles and gazes…and feeling a little ridiculous.

But you know what? The more I put carried myself as though I was a strong, confident and sexy women…the more I believed it! I changed how I perceived myself from the outside in, and you can too. The trick is to practice over and over until you begin to believe it yourself.

So yes, admittedly, the exercises might feel choreographed, and even awkward at first. I challenge you to push through those moments, to let go and trust in these exercises – and in me — to guide your body to experience something you were meant to feel.

Be compassionate with yourself for making this effort; it´s not unusual to feel very disconnected from your sensual side at first, but remember that you are bridging that gap between your body and your spirit. It will come in time, I promise. Your body will awaken, and you´ll feel your spirit expand.

7 Popular Sexy Women’s Adult Halloween Costumes

Fantasies and sense of imagination don’t have to end just because you have already grown up. Halloween is for people of all ages who want to have fun. If you think about not attending Halloween parties because you find those costumes you used to wear while trick-or-treating as a little girl awkward, then you can get any of the sexy women’s adult Halloween costumes. This array of sexy costumes is designed for adult taste and will turn heads at a costume party.

Here are 7 popular sexy women’s adult Halloween costumes which will make you eager to attend costume parties again and will leave an impression that your friends will long remember.

Avatar Movie Sexy Neytiri Adult Costume

You can be the party’s provocative princess of Pandora with this gorgeous ensemble taken from Avatar movie. It consists of a blue bodysuit with bold stripes and attached tail, arm gauntlet, gray apron and multicolored apron and wrist beads.

Ms. Krueger Naughty Nightmare Adult Costume

You can be a dream girl during Halloween with this Ms. Krueger costume. It includes Freddy Krueger’s signature brown and red striped sweater dress slashed across the midsection. It also comes with a brown fedora hat and a glove.

Bella Vamp Adult Costume

You may not bite but you can have the vampire’s wicked charm with this Bella Vamp Adult Costume. This outfit features a long sleeve ruffle hem knit dress accentuated with a top hat, satin waist ribbon and a cape with the classic stand-up collar.

Jack Sparrow Sassy Adult Costume

This provocative pirate captain costume gives you the attention that you want. It includes a dress with attached decorative belt buckles, striped scarf, petticoat, boot covers and a burgundy bandana.

Black Swan Adult Costume

This beautiful black swan costume is a show stopper. Just watch the men look at you with awe as you walk into the room. It includes a sophisticated black corset detailed with black feather, a feathered tail, sexy black tulle skirt and an elegant feather choker. This dark swan ensemble also includes a feather headpiece.

Batgirl Deluxe Adult Costume

This sexy superhero may not have super powers but her allure and charm will bring men to their knees. This daring Batgirl costume consists of mini dress with the bat logo, glovelets, black cape, black Bat character eye mask, black boot tops and yellow vinyl belt.

Twilight Twinkle Adult Costume

Drive your victims wild with your gorgeous biting looks and this alluring vampire attire. This costume features a dress, a corset top with red lace and layered short skirt with fiber optic lights. There’s a hidden pocket so you can discreetly switch the optic lights on or off. It also comes with a red cape with a vampire collar, black necklace, and removable shoulder straps.

Sexy and Arousing Sex Songs

Erotic music can’t always be intrusive or create distraction. It should nourish the situation and heighten the passion in the scene.

This kind of music does not necessarily need to have a high point or part that seems to contain the greatest importance, which commonly may be seen in any normal song with an intro, verse, chorus, bridge and ending. These things may evoke confusion to those that are hearing the song.

Sex music must act as if it were something like music in movies or films that just bring more effectiveness and impulse to the scene and action.

Sensual music should be played as an accessory to turn you on. It is used in a different manner than sex movies or erotic photos, which are the main focus of attraction. Sex music has to lightly excite you by following you during your love session or sexual intercourse.

Whenever the music can accomplish that purpose, we can indeed affirm that it is actually good sensual music, and that it is sex music, as it need to be called.

We are absolutely talking about music that you would use to make out with, have sex with, or perhaps even use for a hot meeting. This isn’t music that you would typically use to dance to (even though it may be an essential part of the act) or to just to listen to.

Sexsonica is most likely the best likeness of this genre of music. Sexsonica’s music embodies ingredient of electronic music with beats and sensual cadences that are hypnotic and suggestive.

Many tastes and spectrums of different styles of music may be viewed in the songs which can transport the listener to various places, cultures, fantasies, and levels of sexuality. The musical variations show a touch of trip hop, ambient, chill out, jazz, and ethnic music or world music. Erotic sounds and alluring instruments can also be heard in these songs with asymmetric rhythms, sound effects, loops, sexy voices and moans and groans.

Sexsonica started its first experimental production in 2005 which is titled Sexualsong which was trailed by subsequent sexy albums such as Sexualsong 2 in 2006 with too erotic songs like “Exotic”, an integration of electronica/ethnic which can transport you to a seductive lifestyle, “Dreaming” is one more song from this album that is one of Sexsonica’s hits and is excessively alluring and tempting. “Lounge” is a considerably sensuous song stuffed with asymmetrical rhythms and multiple voices of enjoyment.

Sexualsong 3 was published in 2007 and a few of the most outstanding songs are “Hypnotic Movement” with foreign instruments from the Middle East and “City of Nocturnal Ecstasy” which is a song of suggestive and striking electronic abstractions.

There are also a few compilations and instrumental versions of Sexualsong 2 and Sexualsong 3.The most current work of art from 2011 by Sexsonica is Sexualsong 4 EP which entails 5 complex and distinguished songs like “Tribal”, a seductive outcry to our untamed and sensual inner instincts and “Epic Contact”, a sexy voyage full epic moments.

Sensual music is, certainly, a remarkably important ingredient required to build an erotic and arousing ambience. Sexsonica’s music is the appropriate choice for creating this ambient.