Six Dating Tips For Keeping a Sexy Woman

Does this sound familiar? I am getting dates with wonderful, sexy women, and I think things are going well, and then she fails to call me back or doesn’t want to go out again. What am I doing wrong? How can I find a date and do the things that will make her want to stick around?

Here are some ideas to avoid some of the most common mistakes guys make.

Dating tip #1: Avoid traditional dates and all that pressure that comes with the traditional date. There’s the dinner, movie, and wondering if she likes you. Maybe you are going for drinks and trying to see if she’s into you. Consider trying different kinds of activities with your potential partner. Even a coffee date can be fun and relaxed. You also spend less money. Keep your mind open for other non-traditional activities like bowling, skating, walks in the park, going to the zoo or nature center. Women often love a botanical garden.

Dating tip #2: Show your interest in what your date has to say. Don’t fill the entire evening talking about yourself. Ask her about her interests, her favorite activities, her experiences, her opinions. A sexy woman will be surprised and intrigued by a man who wants to listen and is interested in what she has to say. She will want to know more about you and spend more time with you.

Dating tip #3: Don’t be afraid to show your intelligence, your manners and your good sense. Even sexy women like a guy who can put his best foot forward. Open the car door (and all doors) for your lady, and be aware to help her on stairs or on uncertain terrain especially if she is wearing high heels. We say be aware, because some women may not like this help, but other women absolutely love it. If they look like they would appreciate you extending your hand to offer them secure assistance, by all means do it. You will score major points in the gentleman category.

Dating tip #4: Be genuine in you language. Don’t use pick up lines. Also, make sure you are not trying to play a role. Simply put, be yourself. You can be a unique, charming date on your own merits. You do not need to resort to this type of behavior.

Dating tip #5: Some sexy women may try to test you. Unless you are looking for someone to serve and pamper the rest of the days of your life, don’t fall into the habit of doing everything she wants. Some of her behavior may actually be a way for her to test and see if you’ll stand up to her. Women know that if you stand up to her, you will stand up for her when she needs you. Be playful and pleasant, but make sure you remain your own man. When you pass their tests, it drives sexy women wild with desire.

Dating tip #6: It’s OK to play the field when you are first starting to date some great sexy women. They will love the idea that other sexy women also find you attractive, and they will pursue you even more.

Nudity And Sex In American Movies

Nudity ands sex in movies can be controversial because some people are uptight about seeing it shown. The United States has a different view on nudity compared to Europe. On some European channels television commercials themselves have nudity, try pulling that off on American television. In many cultures, the nudity and sex factor in movies is governed by a tiered system of censorship. These systems are aimed at limiting children’s access to content that is deemed harmful by the public, the government, the movie industry itself including the Motion Picture Association of America (MPAA). This is a good thing because it properly limits racy content to adults.

Nudity and sex in American films are looked at by movie critics and viewers with a strong eye. Was the nudity or sex shown artistically to impact the story or was it completely gratuitous nudity and sex that added nothing to the movie? That is often the divide. A few movies that have been tagged as the later are “Showgirls” directed by Paul Verhoeven. The movie received an NC-17 rating because of the nudity and simulated sex scenes. It was a very controversial movie when it came out. Rape, lesbianism, and interracial relationships were some of the subjects covered in the movie. In a nutshell it’s about an attractive female drifter that climbs up from a stripper to a showgirl in Las Vegas. Whatever the movie was or was not I watched it an knew what to expect. It would have been strange to see a movie about a Las Vegas stripper that did not have nudity and sex. It would have had no realism in my opinion.

“Swordfish” directed by Dominic Sena and starring Hollywood stars John Travolta and Halle Berry is another movie that is tagged for gratuitous nudity. In brief the movie is about a bad guy who hires a computer hacker to help him electronically steal billions of dollars. The one scene that some people complained about was Halle Berry going topless for apparently no reason. Or as critics put it the scene was so out of context and did nothing to move the story or develop her character. The urban legend is she was paid an extra 2 million dollars for the topless scene. Regardless, I bet that scene helped sell a lot of movie tickets and DVD’s. While some say making movies is done for the art, the bottom line is always the money. Good call by the producers to add that scene.

“Hitman” directed by Xavier Gens has been viewed as offensive by some viewers because of the nudity and sex in the movie. The plot summary from IMDB.COM is this, A gun-for-hire known only as Agent 47 is ensnared in a political conspiracy, which finds him pursued by both Interpol and the Russian military as he treks across Eastern Europe. hired by a group known as “The Agency” to kill targets for cash. The main character Agent 47 finds himself in the company of Nika who is nude in a hotel room and shown straddling Agent 47 nude. I’m guessing this movie inspired by a video game was made as a total guy movie. I felt the nudity fit the plot because it was the art of seduction being played out by a woman who lived a dangerous life. She survived using her looks and cunning.

“Consignment” directed by Sid Kali is a killer urban action movie. It is gritty and realistic keeping to the beat of the rougher side of life dealing drugs. Based on true events, “Consignment” is about Tommy Jones, a reluctant East Coast drug dealer on the run with his wife, Yolanda, after a rival kingpin’s plan to have him ripped-off and murdered goes wrong. Double-crosses, a series of brutal murders, and an old secret from his wife’s past foils Tommy’s plans for a new start at life. This direct to video movie has taken some heat for a few scenes in it. First there is a very hot striptease scene where a curvy Latina seduces two drug dealers going topless down to a g-string. I have been in Las Vegas strip clubs and bachelor parties where that is the norm. Nothing offensive to me. I thought it fit the story because the stripper was a plant for a rival drug dealer learning what she could about his enemies. I thought Director Sid Kali showed the nudity in a tasteful and seductive light. The other is a rape scene where a female drug dealer is pulled from a shower and forced to give up the whereabouts of her former crime partner and lover. I myself do not know anyone that showers in their clothes except those two guys in the movie “Weird Science”. I thought the scene was powerful and added impact to the story because of the way it was shown. The focus was never the nudity but the pain on the face of the female drug dealer. Bravo to that actress! Bravo Sid Kali!

Other art house movies or movies that show nudity and sex are sometimes loved because the nudity and sex is deemed artistic. “Monster’s Ball” directed by Marc Foster landed star Halle Berry an Oscar for Best Actress in a Leading Role. Plot summary from IMDB.COM Set in the Southern United States, ‘Monster’s Ball’ is a tale of a racist white man, Hank (played by Billy Bob Thornton), who falls in love with a black woman named Leticia (Halle Berry). Ironically Hank is a prison guard working on Death Row who executed Leticia’s husband (Sean Combs). Hank and Leticia’s interracial affair leads to confusion and new ideas for the two unlikely lovers. It had one of the most intense graphic love scenes I’ve seen in a movie. Some came out against it claiming it portrays black women as ferocious and lewd, with an appetite for sexual encounters, portrayed by the animalistic and raw quality of the sex scene and its racial context. Others say the scene shows two people’s desperate need for affection and comfort in the face of human tragedy. Whatever the case Halle Berry won an Oscar. She is an amazing actress.

“The Brown Bunny” directed by Vincent Gallo, who also stars in it with Chole Sevingy is a fiery independent film that takes a chance pushing the creative envelope. Plot summary pulled from IMDB.COM Professional motorcycle racer Bud Clay heads from New Hampshire to California to race again. Along the way he meets various needy women who provide him with the cure to his own loneliness, but only a certain woman from his past will truly satisfy him. What sets this movie apart is the highly controversial scene of actual oral sex between Gallo and co-star Chloe Sevigny in a shabby motel room. What made this scene so gripping was the sex scene was shown in such a lonely and painful way. Director Vincent Gallo captured the desperate and shallow feelings of the characters. That scene was included in the movie for shock appeal, it was there to show human pain during what most people think is a pleasurable experience. Bravo for taking the chance on making a radical movie. This director is a rock star! Bravo Vincent Gallo!

Overall I think nudity and sex are part of life. To censor it out of movies is not the answer. I say let movie makers put out their work, including nudity and sex, and let the viewers decide if they want to watch it or not. There are a ton of movies out there with no nudity or sex. Leave the option and the choice to the masses.

Great Sex is Like a Great Movie

A quick search tells me about 600 movies are released in US theatres each year. Now have a quick think and work out how many of those movies you actually watched. Then have another think and decide what ones you thought were actually great movies.

Now, putting aside personal preferences, there are some movies that capture the imagination of millions of people. Sometimes these are the movies that attract a lot of buzz like the latest Indiana Jones movie… but that doesn’t guarantee people will love it.

If you look at the various lists of top movies, I find there’s one common thread that runs through them. They took the audience on an emotional journey.

Think about your favourite movies… what emotions do you feel? Do you fall in love with the characters? Or do you hate them? Do the movies scare you? Or do they make you laugh? All great movies cause an emotional reaction in the viewer.

And the same is true for great sex. Sure, you can have sex 600 times a year, but if there’s no emotion it’ll never be great sex. If you think back to your most memorable sexual experiences you can see how emotion played a strong role.

Maybe you hadn’t seen your lover for a while or it was someone you had to chase for a long time. It could be that you just felt a lot of passion for that person or perhaps it was “forbidden” love. External events might have played a part and raised the emotion of the situation as well.

Emotion is what makes the difference between good sex and great sex. Sure, you can love someone and have good sex with them on a regular basis, but with a bit of a kick start you can turn this into great sex.

To do this you might try:

Having a special romantic evening
Teasing your lover
Having sex somewhere “naughty”
Abstaining… for a while
Playing out fantasies
Trying something “forbidden”
Creating anticipation in advance

There are many ways to heighten emotions during sex and I recommend you try everything you can think of. A little bit of thought is all it takes to take good sex and make it great sex… and who doesn’t want that?

Tyler is a regular guy who enjoys sex and pleasuring his lovers. When he realised a lot of other guys were having the same problems he’d had in the past, he decided to do something about it. Visit his website to find out how to make love to a woman’s mind and body and download his free report “Why You Might Be Bad In Bed… And What To Do About It.”

He prides himself on being different and avoiding unnecessary hype and huge promises. While other “sex gurus” promise mind bending multiple orgasms from super ninja g-spot techniques invented by Tibetan monks… he focuses on the power of a woman’s mind for creating a powerful sexual response that lasts a lot longer than a night of passion.

7 Popular Sexy Women’s Adult Halloween Costumes

Fantasies and sense of imagination don’t have to end just because you have already grown up. Halloween is for people of all ages who want to have fun. If you think about not attending Halloween parties because you find those costumes you used to wear while trick-or-treating as a little girl awkward, then you can get any of the sexy women’s adult Halloween costumes. This array of sexy costumes is designed for adult taste and will turn heads at a costume party.

Here are 7 popular sexy women’s adult Halloween costumes which will make you eager to attend costume parties again and will leave an impression that your friends will long remember.

Avatar Movie Sexy Neytiri Adult Costume

You can be the party’s provocative princess of Pandora with this gorgeous ensemble taken from Avatar movie. It consists of a blue bodysuit with bold stripes and attached tail, arm gauntlet, gray apron and multicolored apron and wrist beads.

Ms. Krueger Naughty Nightmare Adult Costume

You can be a dream girl during Halloween with this Ms. Krueger costume. It includes Freddy Krueger’s signature brown and red striped sweater dress slashed across the midsection. It also comes with a brown fedora hat and a glove.

Bella Vamp Adult Costume

You may not bite but you can have the vampire’s wicked charm with this Bella Vamp Adult Costume. This outfit features a long sleeve ruffle hem knit dress accentuated with a top hat, satin waist ribbon and a cape with the classic stand-up collar.

Jack Sparrow Sassy Adult Costume

This provocative pirate captain costume gives you the attention that you want. It includes a dress with attached decorative belt buckles, striped scarf, petticoat, boot covers and a burgundy bandana.

Black Swan Adult Costume

This beautiful black swan costume is a show stopper. Just watch the men look at you with awe as you walk into the room. It includes a sophisticated black corset detailed with black feather, a feathered tail, sexy black tulle skirt and an elegant feather choker. This dark swan ensemble also includes a feather headpiece.

Batgirl Deluxe Adult Costume

This sexy superhero may not have super powers but her allure and charm will bring men to their knees. This daring Batgirl costume consists of mini dress with the bat logo, glovelets, black cape, black Bat character eye mask, black boot tops and yellow vinyl belt.

Twilight Twinkle Adult Costume

Drive your victims wild with your gorgeous biting looks and this alluring vampire attire. This costume features a dress, a corset top with red lace and layered short skirt with fiber optic lights. There’s a hidden pocket so you can discreetly switch the optic lights on or off. It also comes with a red cape with a vampire collar, black necklace, and removable shoulder straps.

Be a Sexy Woman – Practice and Perfect

Ever hear the phrase “fake it ’till you make it”?

I often send out tips and “homework” to my readers; things to practice and perfect. But I´ve gotten emails from women who worry that the “moves” will feel artificial.

And I’ve gotta admit, there have been times when I would stand in front of the mirror practicing steps and stances, trying on smiles and gazes…and feeling a little ridiculous.

But you know what? The more I put carried myself as though I was a strong, confident and sexy women…the more I believed it! I changed how I perceived myself from the outside in, and you can too. The trick is to practice over and over until you begin to believe it yourself.

So yes, admittedly, the exercises might feel choreographed, and even awkward at first. I challenge you to push through those moments, to let go and trust in these exercises – and in me — to guide your body to experience something you were meant to feel.

Be compassionate with yourself for making this effort; it´s not unusual to feel very disconnected from your sensual side at first, but remember that you are bridging that gap between your body and your spirit. It will come in time, I promise. Your body will awaken, and you´ll feel your spirit expand.