Great Sex is Like a Great Movie

A quick search tells me about 600 movies are released in US theatres each year. Now have a quick think and work out how many of those movies you actually watched. Then have another think and decide what ones you thought were actually great movies.

Now, putting aside personal preferences, there are some movies that capture the imagination of millions of people. Sometimes these are the movies that attract a lot of buzz like the latest Indiana Jones movie… but that doesn’t guarantee people will love it.

If you look at the various lists of top movies, I find there’s one common thread that runs through them. They took the audience on an emotional journey.

Think about your favourite movies… what emotions do you feel? Do you fall in love with the characters? Or do you hate them? Do the movies scare you? Or do they make you laugh? All great movies cause an emotional reaction in the viewer.

And the same is true for great sex. Sure, you can have sex 600 times a year, but if there’s no emotion it’ll never be great sex. If you think back to your most memorable sexual experiences you can see how emotion played a strong role.

Maybe you hadn’t seen your lover for a while or it was someone you had to chase for a long time. It could be that you just felt a lot of passion for that person or perhaps it was “forbidden” love. External events might have played a part and raised the emotion of the situation as well.

Emotion is what makes the difference between good sex and great sex. Sure, you can love someone and have good sex with them on a regular basis, but with a bit of a kick start you can turn this into great sex.

To do this you might try:

Having a special romantic evening
Teasing your lover
Having sex somewhere “naughty”
Abstaining… for a while
Playing out fantasies
Trying something “forbidden”
Creating anticipation in advance

There are many ways to heighten emotions during sex and I recommend you try everything you can think of. A little bit of thought is all it takes to take good sex and make it great sex… and who doesn’t want that?

Tyler is a regular guy who enjoys sex and pleasuring his lovers. When he realised a lot of other guys were having the same problems he’d had in the past, he decided to do something about it. Visit his website to find out how to make love to a woman’s mind and body and download his free report “Why You Might Be Bad In Bed… And What To Do About It.”

He prides himself on being different and avoiding unnecessary hype and huge promises. While other “sex gurus” promise mind bending multiple orgasms from super ninja g-spot techniques invented by Tibetan monks… he focuses on the power of a woman’s mind for creating a powerful sexual response that lasts a lot longer than a night of passion.

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What Makes You A Sexy Woman?

For decades, women have been on a chase to be sexy. Women will do crazy diets; buy insane amounts of makeup and about a thousand other things. However, we as women often tend to forget how to apply the most important key to feeling more beautiful. The mind.

That is right, what makes you a sexy woman is your head. Many of us preach it and may even believe it to be true. But is seldom told to us how to be sexier inside out instead of outside in. That is why pharmaceutical companies have all but given up on female performance enhancing drugs. As opposed to men who are visual creatures, women are turned on by what we feel, think and hear. If you just aren’t feeling sexy in your head, you just cannot successfully translate that into a physical reality.

As a note, men can detect a woman who doesn’t feel good about who she is inside and will treat you accordingly. If you don’t think you are dreamy goddess, you reflect it in how you carry yourself. Honestly, why should he go out of his way if you don’t take the time to have a sexy mind?

So being that it has been established of what makes you a sexy woman, let’s talk about five of the most important ways you can feel sexier in the mind.

Sexy Mind Tip #1- Read your Harlequin and classic romance novels. There has been a few studies that claim women who read romantic novels have better sex lives than women who don’t. Reading erotic stories stimulates the mind and imagination. This can inspire you more than you know.

Sexy Mind Tip #2- Think like a guy. What in the world does that mean? Well that simply means, make it a point to think about sex several times a day. If you are trying to avoid thinking about sex like the plague, how are you going to get into liking yourself? Exploring your mind in this sense is all a part of what makes you a sexy woman. When you are having a stressful day, go off into your mind and have fun. There are no rules in this playground!

Sexy Mind Tip #3- Imagine your ideal sexual encounter at least and play it out in your head 3 times a week. Play it over in your mind. Let yourself go wild and clearly visualize every part of it. What are you wearing? Where are you? What is your demeanor? Who are you with? What do they look like?

Sexy Mind Tip #4 – If you have a partner reflect and focus on parts of your partner’s body or behavior that is appealing to you. If he makes you laugh, embrace it and appreciate it. If he has great calves or strong arms or you like his eyes, be open and tell him. Men like compliments just as much as women and they thrive on praise. For those ladies who are lesbian, this is no different. Praise your lady-love and she will adore you even more. We all enjoy positive reinforcement!

Sexy Mind Tip #5 – Abolish negative thoughts about sex. Previous experiences may have really skewed your perspective when it doesn’t need to be. Thinking that nice girls don’t enjoy sex is a complete falsehood. There are more than enough studies that show that sex is beneficial to the mind and body. It triggers the human growth hormone. It is a natural painkiller. It releases beta-endorphins. Sex relaxes you and also aids in slowing down the aging process. Wouldn’t getting your grove on be cheaper and more fun than Botox injections or pricey anti-wrinkle creme?

In conclusion, what makes you a sexy woman is feeling good about yourself. Feeling sexy is and should not be something outside of yourself like it is something that is supposed to be done by somebody else. Take responsibility for your sexuality. That is what makes you a sexy woman.

Those who are happy and relaxed and looks like she enjoys life will be the biggest attention getter of them all.

New Original Ideas for Sexy Costumes for Couples

Couples costumes are a hit. Sexy costumes are a hit. What could be better than combining the two and discovering some sexy couple costumes to wear for this Halloween?

But some people run into problems. If you have spent any time on the internet looking for couples costumes you may have been running across some of the same ones time after time. You will almost always see the plug and socket outfit or the rather silly looking Adam and Eve outfit. While those were cute for a while, I think they have just about run their course.

On the other hand, while you are looking for a sexy outfit, you may be running into the types that really should be left to the exotic dancer category rather than a fun way for you and your partner to spend an evening at a Halloween party or even at home after the kids are off to bed.

Given that there are literally hundreds of choices it seems a shame that these two options seem to be the two predominant results of searches for sexy costumes for couples.

Hopefully you’ll find a place online where you can get some other ideas and even spur you on to creating your own combinations out of all the wonderful fun sexy costumes that are available. Here are a few ideas to get you started:

The Butler and the French Maid

There are dozens of versions of a French Maid to choose from so there won’t be any danger of your partner getting you mixed up with another French Maid. Of course the guy doesn’t have to be a Butler either. Pair the French Maid with the Southern Gentleman or a Gentleman in Tailcoats or even the Midnight Stalker. Once you’ve discovered all the costumes that are available and gotten a few ideas to get you started, you can choose something that fits just right for the two of you.

Playboy and Playboy Bunnies

Although this may sound rather ordinary once you start looking around you’ll discover just how many unique ideas you can come up with just this basic idea as a starting point. You can start with the Men’s Smoking Jacket costume with the Playboy logo for the man. As for the ladies costume in this pair there are traditional playboy bunny costumes like the one coming out of the top hat. But do a search on the costume site for playboy costumes and you come up with over 35 official Playboy costumes in several different genres like police, gangster, maid, even a Playboy angel and Playboy witch costumes. Are you beginning to get the idea? There are so many ways to combine these wonderful costumes to create unique sexy couple costumes.

Football Costumes

The sexy men’s Tight End Costume will get you started. Pair that up with something like the women’s sexy wide receiver or the Sexy Referee costume. There are sexy tackle me costumes, touchdown costumes as well as a sexy Dallas cheerleaders costume.

Of course there are some costumes that are just really current this year and there’s nothing wrong with pairing them up in more traditional ways. Get one of these pairs that are super hot this year and you’ll be ahead of the curve while the other party goers are still stuck in the plug and socket stage.

Batman Costumes

Even though it’s been a while since the latest movie came out, the Batman theme, especially the Dark Knight costumes are popular and current.

There are over a dozen adult Batman costumes to choose from but the Dark Knight costumes are the sexiest. There are a couple of really sexy Batgirl costumes but there are other ways to pair up with the Dark Knight. You could get a Poison Ivy or DC Comics Gotham girls, but my personal favorite is the Catwoman costume.

Avatar Costumes

The Avatar Movie Sexy Neytiri Costume is truly stunning. There’s even a makeup kit just for doing the blue Avatar makeup. Pair that up with the Avatar Movie Jake Sully Costume for an eye-catching couples costume that is current and beautiful.

There are funny sexy couple costumes, historic sexy costumes, movie star and TV character sexy costumes. You don’t have to settle for the same options or even pair your costumes as suggested. I could go on and on and that is the point. Any couple looking for sexy couple costumes literally has hundreds of options. It can be as much fun picking out your costumes as it is wearing them when you are aware of all the sexy couple costumes that are available at the tip of your fingertips.

Six Dating Tips For Keeping a Sexy Woman

Does this sound familiar? I am getting dates with wonderful, sexy women, and I think things are going well, and then she fails to call me back or doesn’t want to go out again. What am I doing wrong? How can I find a date and do the things that will make her want to stick around?

Here are some ideas to avoid some of the most common mistakes guys make.

Dating tip #1: Avoid traditional dates and all that pressure that comes with the traditional date. There’s the dinner, movie, and wondering if she likes you. Maybe you are going for drinks and trying to see if she’s into you. Consider trying different kinds of activities with your potential partner. Even a coffee date can be fun and relaxed. You also spend less money. Keep your mind open for other non-traditional activities like bowling, skating, walks in the park, going to the zoo or nature center. Women often love a botanical garden.

Dating tip #2: Show your interest in what your date has to say. Don’t fill the entire evening talking about yourself. Ask her about her interests, her favorite activities, her experiences, her opinions. A sexy woman will be surprised and intrigued by a man who wants to listen and is interested in what she has to say. She will want to know more about you and spend more time with you.

Dating tip #3: Don’t be afraid to show your intelligence, your manners and your good sense. Even sexy women like a guy who can put his best foot forward. Open the car door (and all doors) for your lady, and be aware to help her on stairs or on uncertain terrain especially if she is wearing high heels. We say be aware, because some women may not like this help, but other women absolutely love it. If they look like they would appreciate you extending your hand to offer them secure assistance, by all means do it. You will score major points in the gentleman category.

Dating tip #4: Be genuine in you language. Don’t use pick up lines. Also, make sure you are not trying to play a role. Simply put, be yourself. You can be a unique, charming date on your own merits. You do not need to resort to this type of behavior.

Dating tip #5: Some sexy women may try to test you. Unless you are looking for someone to serve and pamper the rest of the days of your life, don’t fall into the habit of doing everything she wants. Some of her behavior may actually be a way for her to test and see if you’ll stand up to her. Women know that if you stand up to her, you will stand up for her when she needs you. Be playful and pleasant, but make sure you remain your own man. When you pass their tests, it drives sexy women wild with desire.

Dating tip #6: It’s OK to play the field when you are first starting to date some great sexy women. They will love the idea that other sexy women also find you attractive, and they will pursue you even more.

Be a Sexy Woman – Practice and Perfect

Ever hear the phrase “fake it ’till you make it”?

I often send out tips and “homework” to my readers; things to practice and perfect. But I´ve gotten emails from women who worry that the “moves” will feel artificial.

And I’ve gotta admit, there have been times when I would stand in front of the mirror practicing steps and stances, trying on smiles and gazes…and feeling a little ridiculous.

But you know what? The more I put carried myself as though I was a strong, confident and sexy women…the more I believed it! I changed how I perceived myself from the outside in, and you can too. The trick is to practice over and over until you begin to believe it yourself.

So yes, admittedly, the exercises might feel choreographed, and even awkward at first. I challenge you to push through those moments, to let go and trust in these exercises – and in me — to guide your body to experience something you were meant to feel.

Be compassionate with yourself for making this effort; it´s not unusual to feel very disconnected from your sensual side at first, but remember that you are bridging that gap between your body and your spirit. It will come in time, I promise. Your body will awaken, and you´ll feel your spirit expand.